Hi everyone and Happy New Year! I hope everyone is doing well. I have so much to update and will do so when I get a moment to breathe. I have been very busy, but John and I are doing very well! I have so much catching up to do with all of you and I miss it. I have to find the time.
A writer contacted me regarding a story. Here is what she is looking for and has offered monetary compensation. May be something someone is interested in. She prefers someone in the UK.
“Hi
there. My name’s Faye. I’m a features writer in the UK, writing for
national newspapers and women’s magazines such as the Daily Mail, The
Sun, Bella, Reveal and Take a Break. I’m looking to do a story on a lady
that can’t help but cheat in a relationship, or a lady that always
falls for a cheater to do a piece for the papers and magazines. I’m
ideally looking for a British lady that is willing to be named and
pictured. It would be a sensitively written piece and the contributor
would have complete control over the content, style and tone, as well as
being paid for their time and trouble. As an agency, we can work to get
you the best fee for your story, as well as the most suitable tone. If
anyone has any questions please don’t hesitate to get in touch. You can
call me on 0121 616 1100 or email me faye@catersnews.com. Thanks! Faye x”
Hi Ariella!
It always warms my heart to hear things are still going well for you and John! It gives me hope! My husband and I have still been on the rollar coaster but our therapist has us reading a really good book on how to “affair proof” your marriage. Basically about meeting each others needs, although I know his cheating has NOTHING to do with me. If it was once, maybe. More than once? No! It’s a character flaw or something. But regardless we both have a lot to work on and we are making slow but steady progress.
I, like you, and always afraid to “jinx” it as if talking about it will make things start going badly! Anyways, I also wanted to say that I love your website about exposing the mistresses! It’s always entertaining and a great outlet for hurt and frustrated women!
God bless and hope all continues to go well!
-Sarah
Hi Sarah,
God, I truly do miss blogging and I have to make time for it! It’s crazy but, we have had no drama and I am like scared to post that! Althoug I did lose it a few weekends ago, I do plan on posting about that eventually!
I am happy to hear that things are going well with your husband and you guys are sticking with therapy! I am so happy to hear that! It is possible that couples can get through this!
Thanks, I love the website too, but it is a lot of work to be honest. I get a lot of messages and between the website, twitter, and facebook I am on the computer all day long! But I truly do miss you girls and talking with you! Please come here anytime and talk to me I will always respond! I wish I could have you all over for coffee! You guys have all have helped me through some of the toughest moments of my life!!!
Sarah, please keep us updated and let us know how things are going!
Hi Ariella,
I too have missed your posts. It is encouraging to think that couples can get through this, grow stronger, better. I haven’t wrtitten much lately as well. Partly because I feel like I’m in hibernation mode (SAD) and partly because there’s been no drama. I’ve tried to keep my blog a place to write about my journey, not just the drama, so that’s a pretty poor excuse isn’t it? Still think it would be awesome to find a place where we can chat? Some kind of discussion forum, it would almost be like sitting down and having coffee together. Or Chai, I’m a chai fanatic.
Zita
Hi Zita,
I will eventually get back to posting, its not that I don’t want to, I have just been very busy. I have not read any blogs lately except for 2 mom’s blogs that lost their little boys to cancer. I have so much catching up to do it is going to take me forever. I never imagined being home now that we no longer have the business would keep me so busy. I do have my youngest home with me all the time and he is a handful, to say the least!
But I do enjoy it. The website keeps me very busy and I enjoy that too, but I never imagined it being so much work. I don’t think I will be gone forever. I know me, and I know I will be back. I am just draind. . . I miss talking with you girls too.