I don’t know if anyone that reads my blog has exposed a homewrecker, but if so, a very popular talk show has called and wants me to appear with a homewrecker and the woman who exposed the Homewrecker. If you are interested, please contact me via email. Ariella@shesahomewrecker.com. Taping for the show is April 8th so I know its short notice. Again, if you exposed a homewrecker via my website, please contact me if you are interested!
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Good Morning Ladies and Happy Valentine’s Day. I am saying that because it is Valentine’s Day, in my opinion the most worthless overrated holiday. However, this is just my opinion. I don’t see anything “Romantic” about a 3 hour wait at a Restaurant or $100 Flowers that die in a few days. Of course, many would probably say that I am bitter, but the truth is, I have my Valentine, actually I have 2. Yes, I have been the betrayed spouse, but my relationship has lasted through it. We have always spent every holiday together, and in my situation, the affairs were quick sexual affairs. Thankfully, I have never had to deal with an emotional attachment. So no, I do not hate Valentine’s Day because I am alone, because I am not alone.
I was asked what I would like to do today, and I just want to stay home because the love of my life would not be able to go out to a romantic dinner with us. He is 5 years old and would have to stay home with a babysitter and after all, he actually asked me if I would be his Valentine weeks ago when Disney Jr. started airing their Valentine’s Day shows on TV! Sorry for my other Valentine, he just waited too long. 
I think it is sad that we have to have a day to show that we love and are loved, a day where a man brings you flowers and candy because he is obligated –after all, all your friends are getting them. Now maybe I am wrong, but I don’t want to receive flowers just because you’re supposed to get them, I want to get flowers “just because”. I don’t think that there needs to be a day to remind that person that you love them, because you should be reminded that you love and are loved every day, not only on February 14th.
So today, I will be spending the day with my best Valentine, and when he falls asleep tonight, perhaps I will watch a movie with my 2nd Valentine! I do not want flowers; I do not want jewelry or candy. He knows this, but of course I will probably end up with something because again –I am quite sure he feels obligated, what would his friends think? The best thing would be for him to just get me M&M’s. Really, I don’t really need to eat them, but there is something sentimental with us and M&M’s. Hey, they are cheap, but I would prefer that over diamonds and flowers. You know why? Because he would have had to put thought into it. That would mean that he was thinking about me not just rushing around to get me something I do not want or need, but something that would make me look in his eyes, smile and know that he “remembers”.
So ladies, whether you are together or alone, just remember that today is just another day! Do something for yourself whether it be reading, just lying around or treating yourself to something special because you deserve it!
Ariella ♥
P.S. I have no excuse for not blogging although I have been very busy lately! I miss all of you, I catch up when I can and I hope everyone is doing well!
Hi everyone and Happy New Year! I hope everyone is doing well. I have so much to update and will do so when I get a moment to breathe. I have been very busy, but John and I are doing very well! I have so much catching up to do with all of you and I miss it. I have to find the time.
A writer contacted me regarding a story. Here is what she is looking for and has offered monetary compensation. May be something someone is interested in. She prefers someone in the UK.
“Hi
there. My name’s Faye. I’m a features writer in the UK, writing for
national newspapers and women’s magazines such as the Daily Mail, The
Sun, Bella, Reveal and Take a Break. I’m looking to do a story on a lady
that can’t help but cheat in a relationship, or a lady that always
falls for a cheater to do a piece for the papers and magazines. I’m
ideally looking for a British lady that is willing to be named and
pictured. It would be a sensitively written piece and the contributor
would have complete control over the content, style and tone, as well as
being paid for their time and trouble. As an agency, we can work to get
you the best fee for your story, as well as the most suitable tone. If
anyone has any questions please don’t hesitate to get in touch. You can
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I feel like it has been forever since I last posted. Everything with John has been going very well. He has just evolved into a completely different person and I must say I am even amazed. Again, I am always afraid to post things like that in a fear of jinxing us. I feel like we are busier now that we sold the business then when we had it. Isn’t that crazy? The website is a full-time job for me, but it’s better because I am home with my family. I love being home! We just gutted one of the rooms in our basement and made a media room. In the past few days we have been enjoying spending time together down there with the kids.
Well, as most of you know I LOVE Christmas. Usually we put a fresh tree in the basement (colored lights for the kids), but since we were under construction, I was unable to get one until last night. John was being difficult as usual and tried to convince me to wait until tomorrow (today) however; I was not trying to hear that! Christmas is in a week! What are we waiting for? I wish I could say that John shared my love of Christmas; I mean he likes it, but. . . I also understand that we come from two different worlds and Christmas when he was growing up was extremely different than what I had. He has said many times, “I never had anything like this.” I always go all out on Christmas and my kids know that Santa leaves presents in the basement too so my little one and I made our way out to the Christmas tree lot last night and got our tree. He has “super tree picking out powers” I must say I have never had such a full tree, but I promised him he could pick it out and he did. Of course I refused to put the tree on the top of my car so it was hanging out of the trunk. We brought the tree home and John brought it downstairs. I put the baby to bed and watched a movie with John. 5:55 am John is waking me up telling me, baby your car is gone! I was not falling for that one, I mean he always tries to get me to wake up at the crack of dawn with him. I did what I usually do, “Shhh im sleeping b-a-b-y!” ” No baby, your car is like really gone”. I shot up looked out the window and my car was gone. Someone stole my car that was parked right outside of my house! I couldn’t believe it! I called the police and filed a report and it has been 16 hours and no sign of my car! Of course, I have insurance and all that but I want MY car back! I feel so violated that someone would do that! That is crazy!
Since my trunk was open getting the tree, I don’t think I locked my doors! (My fault of course because I was so impatient about the tree) The police were surprised that they stole my car stating that my car is harder to steal! Ok, hello, that is my luck. Thankfully, I have 60 day premium rental coverage or something ridiculous, but I just want my car back! A friend of ours told me that if they find it I probably won’t want it anymore. I just can’t believe my car is gone and John is already preparing for what to do if they don’t find it. He wants me to get a mini-van. Now please, no one take this the wrong way, but I am NOT driving a minivan. I have nothing against them, but they are just not for me. He’s delusional if he thinks I am. I swear if they don’t find my car he is going to go out and buy me a brand new minivan and that will be such a waste because I will not drive it. You know how some people swear they are not going to do things and they eventually end up doing it? Well, that will NOT be me. He will be wasting money! I just want my car back now! John swears my car is not good for kids. Its 4 doors and there is nothing wrong with it. I have a 13 year old and a 5 year old. If he wants a minivan so bad he can drive one. This will really be a fight between us and I will win. I will drive a SUV, but I am not trying to get a minivan whatsoever. If they do not find my car, I already know what kind of truck I want and best believe I will win that fight!
Anyway, I hope everyone is doing well and I want to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!
Well, I don’t know how many of you ever visit my website, but for those who don’t I want to give you ladies the opportunity to enter the Homewrecker From Hell Contest! Send me your homewrecker from hell stories! I will be giving away a $250 Amazon.com E-Gift Card to the winner! This is different then exposing the homewrecker because you don’t require to provide pictures or give any names. If you guys want to enter, here is the link! ;)
Wow, I feel like I have not been here forever. I have so many blogs to catch up on, it will probably take me days. However, tomorrow for me will be “catching up on all you missed Monday!”
I don’t have many excuses as to why I have not been blogging, but I will make a few. I have been busy with life in general, my website, shopping, holidays, kids and all. But really, I find myself in some sort of “funk” (can’t come up with something better.) I don’t know, one would think I am depressed maybe? And for the first time, it truly has nothing to do with John! Speaking of the devil, he has been truly amazing which at times, makes me want to punch him in the face! (Ironic you think?) He has been so very attentive and I just do not know who this man is before my eyes! I mean, of course its my John, but I have seen such a complete transformation! He has always adored me and showed me a great deal of love and affection even when he was out having sex with other women,(huh??) but. . . this is different. I can’t explain it, but he has this look and it s real. I have not had any issues with him whatsoever. I really didn’t want to post that because as soon as I give him one ounce of credit, he usually does something to mess it up.
Wednesday was his birthday and we had a great day! He really wasn’t up to doing much, so we just hung out at home and relaxed. Thanksgiving we stayed home in our pajamas all day and it was wonderful! We did not do Thanksgiving (with family)this year and I must say it was great! Usually I have 16-20 people in my house and I run around all morning long like a chicken without a head, but this year, it was just the 3 of us and it was incredible! (Oldest was with my ex-husband in NY) We watched this show called Million Dollar Listings (I think that’s what it is called) marathon on TV and just relaxed. I cannot tell you how nice it was! Probably not the most formal Thanksgiving, but it was the best I have had in a long time.
This was also the 1st year in over 18 years that I did not participate in Black Friday shopping! I always go to the stores every year, I live for it! But for some reason, I just wasn’t feeling it this year. The look on John’s face was priceless when I told him I wasn’t going! He couldn’t stop telling me how proud he was of me for conserving money and not spending! Ha, well, I may not have physically went out to the stores, but I did make sure I took advantage of all the great deals all my favorite stores had to offer online of course! I love shopping online and I love the fact that he hasn’t a clue as to what I order! 10 steps ahead, always, or so I thought. . . but Saturday I had a terrible migraine and I was in bed and when John came home I heard all this noise like banging noises coming through the door. I dragged myself out of bed to see John dragging in package after package! UPS and Fed-X just left my packages at the door and I never heard the knock! I was so surprised because I just made an order at Kohl’s on Wednesday at 3pm. They kicked off their sale early, and gave $15 Kohl’s cash for every $50 spent, plus I had a coupon! However, I would NEVER have imagined the packages would be there by Saturday considering Thursday was Thanksgiving and I just ordered standard shipping. Needless to say, he was less than thrilled. He told me that the reason I didn’t go black Friday shopping was because I already bought everything! (Toysrus.com and Victoria’s Secret came that day too!) Please, if he only knew! That is just the beginning! From now on I will be more cautious of the door!
Besides shopping and John actually being a normal man, I can’t stop thinking about death especially kids dying. Ever since Ty died, all I think about is kids with cancer and kids that have died from cancer and all the families that will spend Christmas with one empty seat at the dinner table this year. I really don’t know any other way to put it except to just come out and say that I am obsessed with Childhood Cancer and death. I read about it all the time, I think about it all the time. John always says to me “why do you read this stuff if it makes you cry?” I can’t stop reading it, and I don’t want to! I want to do something big and I want to help change the world and the funding of Pediatric Cancer. I am sure that many of you will read this and roll your eyes and laugh, but this is coming from a girl who when everyone tells me I can’t do something, I do it and I usually do it ten times better than someone else would. I feel like this is my calling, I don’t know. I don’t even know if I actually believe in callings, but it sounded good, didn’t it?
I don’t know. Things have been going so well in my life and I feel like I am very fortunate that I have to do something to help others. I guess I don’t feel like I have to, I want to.
“The man who moves a mountain, begins by carrying away small stones. . .”
I just finished and posted my first interview for Shesahomewrecker.com! I interviewed a very close friend to Kim Smiley the woman who is currently being sued by Leann Rimes.
“As many of us already know, Leann Rimes had an affair with her now husband Eddie Cibrian. Cibrian admitted to having an affair with Rimes while the pair was still married to other people. I have read countless articles pertaining to the Leann Rimes saga, and have yet to gain one ounce of sympathy for her. The old saying rings true, “You did this to yourself”. Of course, Leann has her supporters and I am certain they defend her, I mean, “You can’t help who you fall in love with right?” READ MORE
I am very excited! 
http://www.shesahomewrecker.com/my-interview-with-blockedbyleann-team-smiley-fights-back-against-leann-rimes-ridiculous-lawsuit/
Expose Her Now!
For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.
The Church of Christ
Power Shorts Daily
Fast approaching 30...... Help
Alternative Thinking to Cheating
Treat others as you would lie to be treated yourself!
This WordPress.com site is the cat’s pajamas
Running 20 Marathons in 2012 for the Inspire Foundation (ReachOut.com)
the reality of it all
Reflections and revelations of sexual revelry ;)
Dealing with the mess of life, love, betrayal, and divorcing a sex addict
a voice crying out into the wilderness
Birthplace to all ideas:please, let me share a few of my own.
A glimpse inside the mind of Mama B
This is what happens when everything you thought was real is not.
Loving, Laughing, Crying - and Writing about it all!
